Day 2: Better Rejection Than Regret

The most painful thing that could happen to a guy is to know the girl he liked but was too shy to ask out liked him even more. Go for what you want #in2019. Be it a relationship, job opportunity, career move, educational pursuit or whatever. Better rejection than regret. Better failing and learning than…

The Smile for the Camera Relationships

Growing up, I realized quite early that God made my feet annoyingly big. My dad and brothers couldn’t pass down shoes to me because as early as 17, I had outgrown everyone’s shoe size. During Youth Service, the NYSC officials couldn’t provide me with a shoe that could fit. I wear 46/47 and the most…

Date Your Wife and Marry Your Girlfriend

“Date your wife and marry your girlfriend” – Kurtis Smith, 2015 I can’t stress the above quote enough. Let me break it down. Date your wife: Most people enter into relationships for various reasons. For companionship, to be taken care of (women are mostly guilty of this), for the sex (men raise your hands), for…

What is New About Your Love Life?

You are both in love, that’s not new. You talk to each other every day, that’s not new. You lovebirds can’t stand being away from each other, nothing new. You have unbridled, wild and sometimes steamy sex, still not new. What’s new about your relationship with God pertaining to your relationship with him/her? Has dating…

7 Relationship Lessons Mosquitoes Teach Daily

After the torrid time I had last night trying to sleep with the added discomfort of mosquito bites and those annoying mosquito sounds all up in my ears. I woke up with three pertinent questions to ask God. So I began…… “God, why did You make mosquitoes?” He didn’t answer, so I asked my follow…

Keeping Your Relationship Private

With the advent of social media, there is not much room for privacy anymore. People post such private information from their last meal to pictures of who they are currently dating. It’s cute to flaunt your boyfriend on social media, its quite cute I must say but such private information is bound to come back…

What Body Odor Taught Me About Relationships

He had just entered the office when the serene environment was doused with a bewildering smell. “Mehnnnnn, what’s that smell?” I thought to myself.  I wanted to be straightforward and tell him outrightly but I didn’t have the “mind”. Not because I was afraid of him but he looked so cheerful and I didn’t want…

10 Ways Sex Ruins Relationships

We all know about sex and how it affects our daily lives. Everyone of us apart from test tube babies are born out of sexual intercourse between a male and a female. The jury is still out on the impact of premarital sex but we all agree that sex should only be practiced in the…

The Domino Effects of Premarital Pregnancy

Sandra is a smart teenager who aspires to be a lawyer. During the course of her studies, she meets Emeka who dreams of taking over his father’s electronics business in Alaba International Market. They both meet and fall in love, one thing led to another she gets pregnant. This pregnancy has implications and will be…

The 80-20 Rule of Relationships

John is a banker in his late twenties. His meteorological rise to the top of his bank’s management structure has been nothing but phenomenal. He is married to a very pretty fashion designer called Agnes. Agnes is very tall for a lady standing at 6 feet and was a model who came 2nd runner up…