The Smile for the Camera Relationships

Growing up, I realized quite early that God made my feet annoyingly big. My dad and brothers couldn’t pass down shoes to me because as early as 17, I had outgrown everyone’s shoe size. During Youth Service, the NYSC officials couldn’t provide me with a shoe that could fit. I wear 46/47 and the most…

What is New About Your Love Life?

You are both in love, that’s not new. You talk to each other every day, that’s not new. You lovebirds can’t stand being away from each other, nothing new. You have unbridled, wild and sometimes steamy sex, still not new. What’s new about your relationship with God pertaining to your relationship with him/her? Has dating…

3 Things Men Want (Part 3): Food and Sex

This is a continuation of the series, READ: Part 1: Respect Part 2: Space PART 3: FOOD AND SEX As the saying goes, the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach. This saying originated from ancient times where the stomach was considered the same region as the groin. In reality, the way to a…

3 Things Men Want (Part 2): Space

This is a continuation of the series, READ:Part 1: RespectPART 2: SPACEThis is by far the most important thing you will ever learn about a man. Ladies I want you to pay full attention because if you miss this point, then you will forever have issues with your man. We discovered in the first part…

3 Things Men Want (Part 1): Respect

We just completed the 7 part series titled “7 Things Women Want”. These include: Acknowledgment, Affirmation, Attention, Affection, Security, Communication and Care (click to read). In that series, we ascertained that men are totally different from women in terms of attitude, reactions, thought pattern and behavior. Men are logical beings while women are emotional beings. Men…

7 Things Women Want (Part 7): Care

This is a continuation of the series, READ: Part 1: Acknowledgment Part 2: Affirmation Part 3: Attention Part 4: Affection Part 5: Security Part 6: Communication PART 7: CARE A lady wants to know for certain that you care about her. Caring connotes caring about her to the smallest element of her life. This includes her well being, her family,…

7 Things Women Want (Part 6): Communication

This is a continuation of the series, READ: Part 1: Acknowledgment Part 2: Affirmation Part 3: Attention Part 4: Affection Part 5: Security PART 6: COMMUNICATION Relationships don’t exist in a vacuum. They exist between two emotional human beings who bring their own past experiences, history, and expectations into it. Communication doesn’t only include everyday ‘surfacey’ topics like (“How were…

7 Things Women Want (Part 5): Security

This is a continuation of the series, READ: Part 1: Acknowledgment Part 2: Affirmation Part 3: Attention Part 4: Affection PART 5: SECURITY Every woman and I mean every single woman wants security. Security can be subdivided into 3 segments. A. Financial Security. B. Emotional Security. C. Physical Security. A woman desires a financial secure…

7 Things Women Want (Part 4): Affection

  This is a continuation of the series, READ: Part 1: Acknowledgment Part 2: Affirmation Part 3: Attention PART 4: AFFECTION A woman needs affection, she needs love in the total package. First of all, there should some form of affection in your words. When she calls or you call her, sound excited to hear…

7 Things Women Want (Part 3): Attention

This is a continuation of the series, READ: Part 1: Acknowledgment Part 2: Affirmation PART 3: ATTENTION Women love attention. Women need attention. Women crave for attention. Most times it doesn’t matter who gives them that attention but women love being noticed that’s why they dress well or try to look good even if they…