The Long Lost Twin of Power is Information.

A few years ago while waiting for my call up letter for National Youth Service Corps (NYSC), I decided to engage myself by getting a job. Applied for a few and got a lucky break. I was fresh out of school and my head was “hot” with knowledge. I felt ready.   I meticulously ironed…

The Wedding That Happened But Didn’t Happen

BASED ON TRUE EVENTS The choir was in full voice. The bride was gorgeously dressed. The groom was looking daper. The bridegrooms were hell bent on hitching their own man with how sumptuous they looked. The men in suit weren’t left out of the beauty and poise. What of the flower girls and page boys,…

The Wedding That Didn’t Happen But Happened

BASED ON TRUE EVENTS As panicked engulfed the church, the wedding guests began talking to themselves quietly at first but noisily a few minutes afterwards. People started forming gossip ‘forums’ and anyone with the most ear dropping information, got the most crowd. It was almost 10am for the wedding and venue of the wedding wasn’t…

Date Your Wife and Marry Your Girlfriend

“Date your wife and marry your girlfriend” – Kurtis Smith, 2015 I can’t stress the above quote enough. Let me break it down. Date your wife: Most people enter into relationships for various reasons. For companionship, to be taken care of (women are mostly guilty of this), for the sex (men raise your hands), for…

Why A Man Should Not Help His Woman

Schooling abroad taught me one major lesson about life. That “if you don’t take care of yourself, no one else would”. I wasn’t satisfied with depending on my parents for my daily upkeep so had to get a factory job in the UK and that meant cutting expenses which resulted in learning how to take…

When A Man Loves A Woman

Love to a man is simply finding solace in the arms of the woman he loves.   An encourager that can ‘show’ him that he can do it. An advisor that can help him plan a way out of any situation. A helper who would help him take care of the family when he is…

When Two Shall Become One

This is what they mean when they say “two shall become one”. . Tied together in good times and in bad times. Tied together when he looses his job and savings are getting depleted. Tied together when she on her period or not just in the mood for sex. Tied together when she gains weight…

Why A Jobless Man Should Not Marry

MOVIE TITLE: The Life of a man SCRIPT WRITER: God Scene 1: After God had finished creating the Heavens and the Earth, day and night, flowers and animals in all its beauty in six full days, He decided to take a break on the seventh day. And then “the LORD God formed man of the…

Sex, Abortion and Pregnancy; Real Life Stories

The most awkward conversation a child can ever have with his/her parents is the “sex” conversation. I can’t actually remember in detail what my mum and I discussed on that fateful day before heading to Secondary school (dad has NEVER discussed sex with me, seems he just figured that the same way animals learn without…

Women and Sex in Marriage

I was having a conversation with a single friend when the issue of sex in marriage came up. She is sexually active but frowns at the slightest sexual approach by her boyfriend. Not because she is being spiritual but to her sex is overrated, painful and a total waste of time. I found her plight…