Day 6: Daddy Loves You

I once asked a baby, “Do you know your daddy’s name?”. She smiled and said, “yes”. Curious, I asked, “so what’s daddy’s name?”. She smiled mischievously and answered very confidently, “daddy’s name is daddy”. I laughed. Even the best footballer, richest businessman, President or most adored preacher is just simply “daddy” to their children. God…

Day 5: Bad Energy Stay Far Away

I have a friend who refused to travel home for the holidays because every time she’s home, she’s reminded by her mum of the many ways she’s not doing well. Her mum according to her would say things like, “you are the first child, you should be married. What’s happening with your school admission. We…

HOW TO GET GIRLS FASTER WITHOUT MONEY

  I walked in the venue of the party with my swag on and at one fell swoop, I had surveyed the entire room full of people. I noticed this gorgeous girl by the side of the room with her friends all giggling and laughing away. She’s got my attention alright but it was too…

LOVE: Breaking Up, Making Up and ‘Staying UP’

I remember breaking up with a girl I loved because I couldn’t stand her when she gets angry. She promised to change but it seemed she wasn’t getting any better. She was explosive, unapologetic and filled with rage when provoked. I couldn’t stand her anymore. I gave her “second” chances numerously‚Äč all to no avail….

The Long Lost Twin of Power is Information.

A few years ago while waiting for my call up letter for National Youth Service Corps (NYSC), I decided to engage myself by getting a job. Applied for a few and got a lucky break. I was fresh out of school and my head was “hot” with knowledge. I felt ready.   I meticulously ironed…

Date Your Wife and Marry Your Girlfriend

“Date your wife and marry your girlfriend” – Kurtis Smith, 2015 I can’t stress the above quote enough. Let me break it down. Date your wife: Most people enter into relationships for various reasons. For companionship, to be taken care of (women are mostly guilty of this), for the sex (men raise your hands), for…

Why A Man Should Not Help His Woman

Schooling abroad taught me one major lesson about life. That “if you don’t take care of yourself, no one else would”. I wasn’t satisfied with depending on my parents for my daily upkeep so had to get a factory job in the UK and that meant cutting expenses which resulted in learning how to take…

When A Man Loves A Woman

Love to a man is simply finding solace in the arms of the woman he loves.   An encourager that can ‘show’ him that he can do it. An advisor that can help him plan a way out of any situation. A helper who would help him take care of the family when he is…

What is New About Your Love Life?

You are both in love, that’s not new. You talk to each other every day, that’s not new. You lovebirds can’t stand being away from each other, nothing new. You have unbridled, wild and sometimes steamy sex, still not new. What’s new about your relationship with God pertaining to your relationship with him/her? Has dating…

7 Relationship Lessons Mosquitoes Teach Daily

After the torrid time I had last night trying to sleep with the added discomfort of mosquito bites and those annoying mosquito sounds all up in my ears. I woke up with three pertinent questions to ask God. So I began…… “God, why did You make mosquitoes?” He didn’t answer, so I asked my follow…