Day 16: Stop Drinking Poison

“Go and make up with your dad”, the Pastor said. The lady looked in amazement. She had come to him for prayers because her husband’s business wasn’t​ doing well and she was yet without a child in 5 years of marriage. Instead of praying or binding one evil spirit, he only said: “go and make…

When Your Enemies Are Just Bloody Tomatoes

A teacher asked her students to bring some tomatoes in a plastic bag to school. Each tomato was to be given the name of a person whom that child hates. So, the number of tomatoes would be equal to the number of persons they hate. On a pre-determined day, the children brought their tomatoes well…

A 9ice Way To Get Rid Of Payne

In 2006, Toni Payne and Abolore Ajifolajifaola (9ice) met through a mutual friend Michael Stephens (Rugged Man) and got married on Thursday July 17, 2008 but had a particularly messy breakup when they separated 6 years ago. They got divorced after 18 months of marriage and details of their marriage (and divorce) was played out…

Marriage Is Not About Love

I was having a very candid conversation with my elder brother who got married when I was out of the country. He made a profound statement that made me think deep. He said marriage is not all about love, its about so many other things. I thought about it and this article is a compilation of what…

Forgiveness Heals The Forgiver

Forgiving when we have been wronged personally is one of the most difficult things we have to do. But until we forgive we carry that injury with us as if it was happening over and over. We remain the victim of the abuse as long as we continue to give the other person power by…