What IF banana FALL on you today?

  What IF I told you that banana would FALL on you now, what would you say? Lol. The Nigerian music scene has been laden with so much sexual innuendo that one can’t help but flinch when eating fruits these days. No fruit or plant has escaped musicians wrath with cassava, cucumber, banana, eggplant all…

When The Pen is The Right Size

Looking back at my early teenage years growing up, one event remains ever vivid in my memory and shaped my perception of sex forever. I don’t know if I would tag what happened that fateful day a cruel punishment or a sick joke but what transpired between my roommates and the “evil seniors” was hella…

Underage Sex: When YES Means NO

The year was 2011 and upon seeing my posting letter in camp, I didn’t know whether to disappear or let the ground swallow me. I was posted to one of the riverine areas in Bayelsa even after working/pleading/arranging/paying to be posted to the state capital, Yenegoa. I couldn’t swim, I didn’t have a life jacket,…

7 Sex Lessons Mosquitoes Teach

I had just endured a horrible night with a whole feast of mosquitoes taking turns to somehow reduce the amount of blood in my body. That experience gave birth to the much read and popular “7 Relationship Lessons Mosquitoes Teach Daily“. I really didn’t envision writing another ‘mosquito’ article but then again, why not milk…

7 Reasons Guys Dislike Virgins

Growing up, virginity sucked (no pun intended). Let me explain. As a young naive boy, I had tons of female friends but never even had a kiss with anyone. Not that it bothered me back then because I was more into playing football and my studies than I was into girls (weird but true). Then…

A Sexual Letter From The Virgin

Dear Kurtis, I don’t know how to say this so it doesn’t sound awkward but let me try. I am close to 28 years old and have been friends with this particular guy for over 15 years now. Our budding friendship started while as kids in Secondary school and later it blossomed into two teenagers…

The Single Mother Who Gave Birth As A Virgin

I have always seen single mothers as very strong women. They might have made mistakes (like everyone of us) but from a cynics point of view, their mistake (the unexpected baby) lives with them forever and keeps getting bigger. These are women who have turned their “mistakes” to blessings. These are the women to who…

A Single Mother Shares Her Heartwarming Testimony

I have always seen single mothers as very strong women. They might have made mistakes (like everyone of us) but from a cynics point of view, their mistake (the unexpected baby) lives with them forever and keeps getting bigger. These are women who have turned their “mistakes” to blessings. These are the women to who…

Happy Mother’s Day To The Forgotten Mothers

    A little over 3 hours ago, I found out that today was actually another mother’s day while listening to a radio station (sometimes I lose count with the numerous mother’s days). Another Mother’s day comes with another opportunity to celebrate the angels we have in human form. The special set of human beings…

Sex, Abortion and Pregnancy; Real Life Stories

The most awkward conversation a child can ever have with his/her parents is the “sex” conversation. I can’t actually remember in detail what my mum and I discussed on that fateful day before heading to Secondary school (dad has NEVER discussed sex with me, seems he just figured that the same way animals learn without…