The Rape Scandal: Biodun vs Busola

Before travelling to the UK in 2012, I asked friends to copy songs and messages to my hard drive. Something to listen to in a foreign man’s land. A few months later while listening to a song on iTunes (it was on shuffle mode), a message came on. The message was titled “The Power of…

Please Leave Her Vagina Alone

Mary Oloiparuni was 13 when she was mutilated. Restrained in a doorway early one morning in her home, she was cut, bled profusely and experienced agonizing pain. The scarring she endured then continues to cause her pain today, 19 years later. It has made giving birth to each of her five children an excruciating and…

Let’s Talk About ‘The Horny Pastor’

“I thought it was a dream but it was actually happening. He had his hands on my breasts and was fondling them. I was too shocked to move at first but when I got myself. I jerked up like I had a seizure”. She said while pausing to take a sip of her drink. After…

Sex is Definitely a Basic Instinct

Over a decade before I lost my virginity, with the uncrossing and crossing of her legs to reveal her private part, Catherine Tramell played by Sharon Stone in the 1992 movie titled​ ‘Basic Instinct’ had more or less sealed her legacy as a sex goddess and defined the sexuality of a 9 year old boy….

What IF banana FALL on you today?

  What IF I told you that banana would FALL on you now, what would you say? Lol. The Nigerian music scene has been laden with so much sexual innuendo that one can’t help but flinch when eating fruits these days. No fruit or plant has escaped musicians wrath with cassava, cucumber, banana, eggplant all…

When The Pen is The Right Size

Looking back at my early teenage years growing up, one event remains ever vivid in my memory and shaped my perception of sex forever. I don’t know if I would tag what happened that fateful day a cruel punishment or a sick joke but what transpired between my roommates and the “evil seniors” was hella…

Underage Sex: When YES Means NO

The year was 2011 and upon seeing my posting letter in camp, I didn’t know whether to disappear or let the ground swallow me. I was posted to one of the riverine areas in Bayelsa even after working/pleading/arranging/paying to be posted to the state capital, Yenegoa. I couldn’t swim, I didn’t have a life jacket,…

7 Sex Lessons Mosquitoes Teach

I had just endured a horrible night with a whole feast of mosquitoes taking turns to somehow reduce the amount of blood in my body. That experience gave birth to the much read and popular “7 Relationship Lessons Mosquitoes Teach Daily“. I really didn’t envision writing another ‘mosquito’ article but then again, why not milk…

7 Reasons Guys Dislike Virgins

Growing up, virginity sucked (no pun intended). Let me explain. As a young naive boy, I had tons of female friends but never even had a kiss with anyone. Not that it bothered me back then because I was more into playing football and my studies than I was into girls (weird but true). Then…

A Sexual Letter From The Virgin

Dear Kurtis, I don’t know how to say this so it doesn’t sound awkward but let me try. I am close to 28 years old and have been friends with this particular guy for over 15 years now. Our budding friendship started while as kids in Secondary school and later it blossomed into two teenagers…