Why Anal Sex is a Forbidden Fruit

“What’s the craziest thing you have done for love?” It’s not a rhetorical question. Think about it. Done?! This same question was posed to Jennifer (not her real name) and her response was; “anal sex”. Crazy right? So did she enjoy the experience? “I tried anal sex because of love and it wasn’t a good…

Sleeping with Another Man’s Wife

“By Nigerian standards, I’m a rich man but my wife. My wife is by far my most priced possession”. Richard Mofe-Damijo’s character tells Blossom Chuwujekwu’s character in the movie “Okafor’s Law”. “But you little twit”, he continued now in a rage. “You little demon somehow managed to get through to her and you slept with…

Ladies: You Woke Up with a D*ck

  Something happened while you were asleep!! A transformation. You woke up in the middle of the night oblivious of what had happened while you were sleep. You strode sleepy eyed to the bathroom to pee. As a lady, you sat on the toilet seat and when you were done, you fetched tissue paper to…

Big D*ck or Good Sex: The Discussion

Please read the story of David and Stella before you continue. Click HERE It is not hidden but the fact remains that sex plays a major factor in the sustainability of a marriage. It’s hard to think of a woman who would be okay with sex deprivation on the grounds her man’s penis is too…

Big D*ck or Good Sex: Case Study of David and Stella

  David had just graduated from one of the top private Universities in the country. He proceeded to learn French in a French school while waiting for a job where he met Stella. Stella was shy while David was outspoken. In her shyness, she admired his courage and outspokenness. She liked him. In his outgoing…

The Condom Conundrum

  “Charles, please do you have condom?”, a voice said from the window. It’s 2 am and I thought I was dreaming. Why would someone be asking me for condom from the window this early morning. Is this the new strategy by armed robbers? “Charles, please wake up. Help a brother out. Do you have…

The Rape Scandal: Biodun vs Busola

Before travelling to the UK in 2012, I asked friends to copy songs and messages to my hard drive. Something to listen to in a foreign man’s land. A few months later while listening to a song on iTunes (it was on shuffle mode), a message came on. The message was titled “The Power of…

Please Leave Her Vagina Alone

Mary Oloiparuni was 13 when she was mutilated. Restrained in a doorway early one morning in her home, she was cut, bled profusely and experienced agonizing pain. The scarring she endured then continues to cause her pain today, 19 years later. It has made giving birth to each of her five children an excruciating and…

Let’s Talk About ‘The Horny Pastor’

“I thought it was a dream but it was actually happening. He had his hands on my breasts and was fondling them. I was too shocked to move at first but when I got myself. I jerked up like I had a seizure”. She said while pausing to take a sip of her drink. After…

Sex is Definitely a Basic Instinct

Over a decade before I lost my virginity, with the uncrossing and crossing of her legs to reveal her private part, Catherine Tramell played by Sharon Stone in the 1992 movie titled​ ‘Basic Instinct’ had more or less sealed her legacy as a sex goddess and defined the sexuality of a 9 year old boy….