When A Man Loves A Woman

Love to a man is simply finding solace in the arms of the woman he loves.   An encourager that can ‘show’ him that he can do it. An advisor that can help him plan a way out of any situation. A helper who would help him take care of the family when he is…

When Two Shall Become One

This is what they mean when they say “two shall become one”. . Tied together in good times and in bad times. Tied together when he looses his job and savings are getting depleted. Tied together when she on her period or not just in the mood for sex. Tied together when she gains weight…

A Simple NO Can Save Your Life

Any situation/habit/act that defiles you/ makes you compromise your values/ causes you to sin against God and makes you betray your belief system is NO (Not Okay) to your life and should be followed up with an emphatic NO. No is a complete sentence and needs no explanation so don’t begin to scramble for a…

What is New About Your Love Life?

You are both in love, that’s not new. You talk to each other every day, that’s not new. You lovebirds can’t stand being away from each other, nothing new. You have unbridled, wild and sometimes steamy sex, still not new. What’s new about your relationship with God pertaining to your relationship with him/her? Has dating…

What GIRL POWER Really Means

We need to tell our girls that “GIRL POWER” has absolutely nothing to do with their skin color, boobs, hips or ass size. It has nothing to do with how big or flat her tummy is or how beautiful her face looks. It has nothing to do with how many guys compliment her or how…

Wedding Proposals Gone Wrong

There is something magnificent about marriage proposals. You know that moment a man surprises his girlfriend in public and usually in the midst of friends. He goes down on one knee with an engagement ring in one hand and pops the question every girl longs to hear. It’s always followed with the lady covering her…

7 Relationship Lessons Mosquitoes Teach Daily

After the torrid time I had last night trying to sleep with the added discomfort of mosquito bites and those annoying mosquito sounds all up in my ears. I woke up with three pertinent questions to ask God. So I began…… “God, why did You make mosquitoes?” He didn’t answer, so I asked my follow…

7 Reasons Men Chase After Women

Growing up, I faced competition in almost every aspect of my life. From fighting for the TV remote control with my siblings which I usually got as the okpala (first born) to the ‘hustle’ for top spots in class with my classmates. It was from one neck cracking experience to another but nothing frustrated me…

How To Toast A Guy Like A Pussy

“I have waited for him to make the move but he hasn’t. When is it okay for a girl to chase a guy?” she asked. I really thought she was asking a rhetorical question but there was nothing rhetorical about the look on her face. She looked frustrated and in love at the same time….

When Love Becomes Suspiciously Lonely

I once asked a friend why she missed her boyfriend. Ex boyfriend as at that point. The same guy that cheated on her so much that she lost count. The same guy that used her as a punching bag in preparation for his boxing championship. Her simple reply was “I am lonely without him”. It…