For Girls Only: Tampons are ALWAYS Better. Period.

  I heard her screams from across the house and knew I had to swing into action and do something. I was barely 17 or so and my little and only sister was experiencing the first visit of those bloody monsters and her discomfort was keeping me up all night. Mum wasn’t home. Dad traveled….

Letter To Women: Love, Abuse and Death

“Can I ask you a question?”, she began. “How can you talk a girl out of an abusive relationship and she claims to be head over heels”. “Show her evidence”, I replied with web links of abusive relationships that have led to death. Click HERE for number one Click HERE for number two Click HERE…

How To Become A Virgin Again

The decision to be celibate until marriage was always taught to me. Embedded in me since I was a young girl. “Wait until marriage” was my sex talk. So I did. I never got the attention from boys that other girls got, so it was easy to resist temptation. You can resist what you don’t…

Are You Really A Virgin? Like Really!!

There used to be a time when virginity was generally synonymous to virtue in the culturally scheme of things. Youths especially girls were encouraged to avoid sexual intercourse till marriage because virginity was a pride to the girl’s family, admiration for the future husband and show of self worth for the girl in question. How…

What GIRL POWER Really Means

We need to tell our girls that “GIRL POWER” has absolutely nothing to do with their skin color, boobs, hips or ass size. It has nothing to do with how big or flat her tummy is or how beautiful her face looks. It has nothing to do with how many guys compliment her or how…

How To Toast A Guy Like A Pussy

“I have waited for him to make the move but he hasn’t. When is it okay for a girl to chase a guy?” she asked. I really thought she was asking a rhetorical question but there was nothing rhetorical about the look on her face. She looked frustrated and in love at the same time….

The Creation of Woman: The Article Every Girl Must Read (Part 2)

Photo credit: Michel Angelo The following conversation *hopefully* occurred between God and the angels during the creation of the man in Genesis 1 and 2. God: So my people, we are almost done with creation but I have this gut feeling that something is still missing. Angel Michael: Father, you have done a god job…

Truth or Myth: Husband and Boyfriend Snatching

Ladies come closer. Oya draw your ears…… See eh. There is nothing like husband/boyfriend/sugar daddy snatching. A full grown man cannot be snatched. He is not a handbag in Balogun market. Unlike your confused hormones, men are not confused. They always know what they want. Even while dating Aisha, Amanda, Atinuke, Abiye, Abasiobong and Amaka….

The Single Mother Who Gave Birth As A Virgin

I have always seen single mothers as very strong women. They might have made mistakes (like everyone of us) but from a cynics point of view, their mistake (the unexpected baby) lives with them forever and keeps getting bigger. These are women who have turned their “mistakes” to blessings. These are the women to who…