A friend beckoned on me yesterday and told me of how she kept going back to a guy that didn’t obviously value her. “Charles, you won’t understand. I have tried all I can to forget him but I keep seeing myself go back”.
It’s obvious she was following her heart instead of leading it. You don’t follow your heart, you lead your heart. Your heart is like a sheep, your brain is like a shepherd. The sheep don’t lead the shepherd. Like the smoker who decides to quit smoking, it’s never gonna be easy. You will cry, you will be afraid, you will be lonely but remain resolute. #In2019, whatever or whoever brings you pain or regret, stamp your feet and take a decision and like 50 cent, “Get change or die trying”.