I have a friend who refused to travel home for the holidays because every time she’s home, she’s reminded by her mum of the many ways she’s not doing well. Her mum according to her would say things like, “you are the first child, you should be married. What’s happening with your school admission. We need money in the house. Get a job. Bla bla bla”.
Wizkid sang, “bad energy stay far away”. Anyone that gives you bad energy #in2019 should be very far away from you. Stay with people who admire what you have and encourage you than friends that remind of what you don’t have and criticize you. Seek positive energy.