Letter To Women: Love, Abuse and Death

“Can I ask you a question?”, she began. “How can you talk a girl out of an abusive relationship and she claims to be head over heels”. “Show her evidence”, I replied with web links of abusive relationships that have led to death. Click HERE for number one Click HERE for number two Click HERE…

What Judging Others Says About You

Have you ever sat down and asked yourself a pertinent question, “am I holy?” Is anyone holy? Is anyone without sin? You judge someone not when you assess their position, but when you dismiss them as a person. Jesus told people that their works were evil. Yet John 3:17 says that God didn’t send Jesus…

What If There is No What If

Someone once asked me, “what’s your biggest regret in life?” I answered, “that instead of learning from my mistakes, I regretted them happening”. Think about it. Sometimes you sit down after making a mistake and keep playing those “what if” scenarios. What if I did this, what if I did that, what if I didn’t…

The GIFT and the PUSH

There is a story of a man, very wealthy man in Delta State, Nigeria who bought a brand new car for his Chief Security Officer (CSO) and sacked him the next day telling him to take the car along. The news is quite ear tinkling because if the CSO had done something wrong why did…

The Giving Life: The Secret of Billionaires

One of the reasons Billionaires stay stinkingly rich asides their knack for executing financially rewarding deals is their giving attitude. Any Billionaire that isn’t generous will end up in penury. Early this year, fourteen billionaires announced they have signed the Giving Pledge, formally joining the 154 other billionaires who have promised to give away at…

Tell That Sickness About Your God

My Pastor once told a story of how he saw a friend looking pale and unhealthy and he asked her what the matter was and she replied “I have a headache”. He smiled. In her bewilderment, she asked him “Pastor, why are you smiling?” He took her outside and said “do you see my car?”…

Gratitude in a Pack of Groundnuts

It takes alot to bring me to tears but buying groundnut from this beautiful young girl almost weakened my bones. I had just alighted from a bike when I saw this little girl with four “nylons” of groundnut scattered on a tray on her head. “Brother, come and buy groundnut”, she beckoned. “Okay”, I said….

The Twins Called Contentment and Happiness

  Contentment is the first step in the ladder of happiness but envy is that banana peel small enough to be ignored but dangerous enough to bring you crashing down (Galatians 6:4-5). Contentment doesn’t mean you are satisfied with where you are in life but you are happily aspiring for more. Key word is “happily”….

When Last Did You Recommend God?

Nothing gladdens my heart more than talking about God. So we went out to evangelize today and everyone I spoke to heard me say these words, “Let’s imagine you go to make your hair and you like the end product, would you recommend the hair stylist to someone else?” They all said yes. “Let’s imagine…