Dogs, Suya, Love and Heartbreak

It’s with a bitter heart, angry spirit and a hungry stomach that I pen this article. There is nothing more painful and discomforting than what I am about to relay on this piece. It speaks of betrayal, carelessness, hurt and distrust. After spending so much of my time, energy and effort into this relationship. So…

How To Become A Virgin Again

The decision to be celibate until marriage was always taught to me. Embedded in me since I was a young girl. “Wait until marriage” was my sex talk. So I did. I never got the attention from boys that other girls got, so it was easy to resist temptation. You can resist what you don’t…

Are You Really A Virgin? Like Really!!

There used to be a time when virginity was generally synonymous to virtue in the culturally scheme of things. Youths especially girls were encouraged to avoid sexual intercourse till marriage because virginity was a pride to the girl’s family, admiration for the future husband and show of self worth for the girl in question. How…

Angry Feminists: When Women Can’t Cook

I wonder what happened to the women who knew how to cater for their families and where actually proud of it. Now you mention “kitchen”, feminists will tag you a misogynist. . We live in a world which has forgotten their “foundation”. We live in a world where baking has nothing to do with the…

When A Man Loves A Woman

Love to a man is simply finding solace in the arms of the woman he loves.   An encourager that can ‘show’ him that he can do it. An advisor that can help him plan a way out of any situation. A helper who would help him take care of the family when he is…

When Two Shall Become One

This is what they mean when they say “two shall become one”. . Tied together in good times and in bad times. Tied together when he looses his job and savings are getting depleted. Tied together when she on her period or not just in the mood for sex. Tied together when she gains weight…

A Simple NO Can Save Your Life

Any situation/habit/act that defiles you/ makes you compromise your values/ causes you to sin against God and makes you betray your belief system is NO (Not Okay) to your life and should be followed up with an emphatic NO. No is a complete sentence and needs no explanation so don’t begin to scramble for a…

Operation “JUMP and PASS”

“The day my enemies turned tail and ran, they stumbled on You and fell on their faces. You took over and set everything right; when I needed You, You were there, taking charge. I’m thanking You, God, from a full heart. I am writing the book of your wonders. I am whistling, laughing and JUMPING…

When Worry Makes You A Warrior

A few years ago, Martha was asked by a colleague to pick up her grand mother for her checkup at the hospital. Martha didn’t know this woman. All she was told was that this person was more than 90 years old and probably quite frail. But the person who opened the door when Martha knocked…

What is New About Your Love Life?

You are both in love, that’s not new. You talk to each other every day, that’s not new. You lovebirds can’t stand being away from each other, nothing new. You have unbridled, wild and sometimes steamy sex, still not new. What’s new about your relationship with God pertaining to your relationship with him/her? Has dating…