The Truth About Corporate Prostitution

I had just finished serving my country judiciously for a year in the sun and in the rain back in 2012 and was just buying time before commencing the Msc adventure. I stayed at home for a little over a week when it dawned on me that doing nothing under my father’s roof was bound…

5 Lessons A Car Teaches Men About Women

In Africa, a man’s identity is tied to his car. An African man is aware that even before he opens his mouth, his car does the speaking for him. The Bible said “by their fruits, you shall know them” but in Africa, by their cars, you shall know them. A man knows the importance of…

Christianity: Men and Many Wives

First Thought: In this tradition of ours where a woman’s identity is tied to that of her husband (she retires her surname after marriage and takes up his). The same tradition where a married woman gets more respect and recognition than her unmarried and sometimes more successful counterpart. The tradition where single ladies are getting…

Controlling Anger By Cooking Beans (Works Like Magic)

Growing up as a little boy, I loved eating beans. I don’t know what brought about my love for beans but sometimes when people would ask how I gained my over 6ft 3in frame, I like to give beans the credit. I am sure my parents won’t mind beans taking the glory..lol As an adult,…

Why Lovers Shout When Angry

A professor was teaching about Proverbs 15:1. He asked his students, why do we shout in anger? Why do people shout at each other when they are upset? The students thought for awhile. One said,because we lose our calm. But the professor asked again,why shout when the other person is just next to you? Isn’t…

Importance Of Fasting and Prayer

The 21 days prayer and fasting of Winners Chapel and the 50 days prayer and fasting of The Redeemed Christian Church of God commenced today. From Monday, 11th January till Sunday, 31st January the Winners family worldwide will be engaging themselves personally in a prayer and fasting session daily. Every Winner is expected to break…

THE STORY: A Married Man and The Single Girl

A girl at a bus stop spotted a handsome man and without hesitation went to him and said ” you look cute.. I like you.”…. The man out of shock simply placed his hand on her shoulder and said “My dear, this love and infatuation are all nothing. You are too young to be behaving…

FOR MEN: 5 Reasons Money Is Not An Issue To Marry

I had just finished writing and publishing “15 Reasons Every Man Should Marry Early” (click to READ) when a reader commented with “Smith truth is I know a lot of guys that wanna do this but finance is the no 1 reason a lot of them hold back” and when I replied with “money is…

15 Reasons A Man Should Marry Early

It’s no secret that African men tend to get married well into their 30’s with excuses like “I haven’t found the right woman” and “I want to focus on my career first before getting married” among the pyramid of excuses they give for their delay. This article looks to address the benefits of getting married…

A 9ice Way To Get Rid Of Payne

In 2006, Toni Payne and Abolore Ajifolajifaola (9ice) met through a mutual friend Michael Stephens (Rugged Man) and got married on Thursday July 17, 2008 but had a particularly messy breakup when they separated 6 years ago. They got divorced after 18 months of marriage and details of their marriage (and divorce) was played out…