It’s common place in Africa that most women tend to gain weight after childbirth coupled with protruding tummies. African women are given to looking bigger after marriage especially after childbirth with the mindset that they don’t have to work as hard to keep shape. The mindset that they are married and don’t need to keep their sexy bodies to get a man would make a woman not make her hair, not keep herself looking youthful and wearing wrapper at home. This ideology makes a woman look ten times older than she truly is.
The challenge any woman should pose upon herself is to look more beautiful than she was on her wedding day.
Marriage makes women lazy and complacent. She gives birth and she doesn’t bother working on her tummy to make it flat. She doesn’t bother to shed the ‘baby fat’ she gained during pregnancy properly. She’s too unconcerned to do kegel exercises which helps to tone the vaginal muscles after childbirth and return it to its tightened state. She’s too lazy/busy to spend hours in the saloon to make her hair like she did when she was single or make her hails or even shave her veejay just because she’s married.
Women tend to forget that men are visual beings. Men are aroused not by what they hear. Men get aroused faster by sight than by what they touch. Therefore every woman should strive to remain in shape, sexy, hot, beautiful and very attractive during marriage and even after pregnancy.
Omotola Jalade Ekeinde, the famous Nollywood actress is a figure head when it comes to looking youthful. She is very close to 40 years with 4 big kids but could be mistaken for a 25 year old lady.
Another case of remarkable beauty after childbirth is Sonia Morales (IK Ogbonna’s Columbian wife). She gave birth only a few weeks ago and this post-pregnancy picture shocks the imagination. Seriously?…lol
The most shocking for me is a friend. She’s been on my BBM for a while. She’s the I-must-snap-picture-everyday kinda contact. I knew she was married but just recently found out that she had already coughed out two kids from her model like body with the last child only 6 months old.
Ladies, you can look hotter and more attractive as a mother than as a single girl. All you need is the right information, the right exercises, the right selection of food and most importantly, the will. All the best.