This is a continuation of the series, READ:
Part 1: Acknowledgment
PART 2: AFFIRMATION
Its not a secret that women are moved by what they hear while men are moved by what they see. A woman is unsure of many things in her life. She is unsure of how she looks, how perfectly drawn her eye brows are, how nice her hair looks and smells, how she looks in a dress etc-No wonder they are always with their makeup bags and mirror all the time.
A lady is also uncertain of her place in your life, of your love for her and if you value her above all other beautiful women. It is a man’s duty to reassure his lady with his words and actions. Women need to be reassured on a daily basis of how wonderful, beautiful and special you think they are. Don’t wait till her birthday, or your anniversary or even Valentine’s day to remind a woman of your love for her.
The Bible says in Lamentations 3:22-23 “The mercies of the Lord are new every morning” meaning yesterday’s mercies are not enough for today so God makes available brand new mercies every morning. We can relate this verse to reassurance as the compliments of yesterday is never enough when dealing with a woman. You must learn to compliment her everyday and as often as possible. For example, a lady spends 5 hours in the salon and you don’t compliment her hair? Now that’s a crime in my opinion. It is a criminal offense for a lady to spend so much time making up, getting dressed, brushing her hair and looking good for an outing with you for you not to notice and acknowledge her. Every time you have an opportunity to compliment your woman, take full advantage of it because it’s your compliment that matters the most to her.
When a woman cooks, make her feel like the best cook in the world. When she takes care of the kids, make her feel like the best mum in the world. When she takes care of you in bed, make her feel like the best sexual partner you have ever had and will ever want (for only married couples plssss..lol).
Wake up in the morning and say words like “I just love you, I am ready to wake up every morning with you by my side for the rest of my life, you make my life complete”. In the afternoon you spice it up with “baby, just called to tell you how much I miss you, how much you complete me, I can’t wait to leave this ‘boring’ work and spend time with my princess”. At night, you add it up a notch with words like “you are the air I breathe, you are the one for me, you make me the happiest man in the world, you make living without you seem impossible”. When you make your wife feel good, you will reap the dividends.
Words are powerful and even more important to women. Women are more sensitive to words than men do so never use your words to bring your woman down. Never ever use your words to belittle her! Never compare her with other women because she is the only authentic piece of her there is and will ever be. Always lift her up with your words.
Finally, here is a secret I always love to share. ‘Your woman will act the same way you make her feel. If you make her feel like your queen, then she acts like your queen. Plant love and reap love.’