Marriage Is Not About Love

I was having a very candid conversation with my elder brother who got married when I was out of the country. He made a profound statement that made me think deep. He said marriage is not all about love, its about so many other things. I thought about it and this article is a compilation of what…

5 Reasons Why You Should Never Be Pregnant

I was having a conversation with a friend and I told her of my disappointment in girls that get pregnant and either give birth or abort. I gave her some of the points listed below but her excuse was that information is not readily available to these girls. I see it as ignorance because the…

Dealing With Disappointment

Some weeks back, a friend told me a story of how her 15 year old cousin was shot in the leg by armed robbers who came to rob her uncle. She was in tears and asking God why He would allow such a thing to happen to this innocent young girl. When she told me…

Acknowledging Your Self Worth

Acknowledging of your self worth is the beginning of a victorious journey in life. This self awareness process involves knowing yourself and your abilities, and placing a high value on them. Self awareness doesn’t include seeing yourself naturally but seeing yourself in Christ. Phillipians 4:13 says “I can do all things through Christ which strengthens…

Ethics and Etiquettes in Relationships: Part 1 (Going On Dates)

Its not news that people don’t know how to act when out on a date with someone. It can be friends just going out to chill or a guy taking a girl out or a colleague taking another colleague out. In all circumstances, these simple yet often ignored rules apply. 1. Scout the restaurant: As…

5 Reasons Why Relationships Breakup

I was in deep thought concerning why some relationships that started with so much love and affection end up with so much hatred. A couple that were so much in love with each other, the same couple that couldn’t keep their eyes off each other, the same couple that couldn’t wait to tie the knot…

Understanding Menstruation and Ovulation

Menstruation is one of those female related body activities that could either be good news or bad news depending on the marital status of the woman. If a single woman doesn’t see her period she is scared and very bothered (especially if she’s sexually active) but if on the other hand a married woman doesn’t…

11 Ways To Deal With Heartbreak

Relationships are not perfect hence some relationships tend to fall apart and some more bitterly than others. Moving on after being dealt with heartache is not easy but I am hear to tell you that it is possible by following the steps outlined below: 1. Move On Literally: When a partner cheats, its quite imperative…

The Secret To Winning Any Argument

I remember the days when I was a well decorated argumentator. When it came to arguing facts, I was the champion. Those days when my friends were arguing about something especially football, politics or even girls and I wasn’t around, you will hear them make statements like “wait first make Kurtis come, you will see…

God Doesn’t Help Those Who Help Themselves

Eva and Chimezie got married in 2008. Its been 6 years after their wedding and although they have been certified child-bearing-capable by different doctors, still no child is forth coming. Chimezie’s mother has always been championing for a child because according to her she’s getting old and wants to see her grand children before she dies….