10 Ways Sex Ruins Relationships

We all know about sex and how it affects our daily lives. Everyone of us apart from test tube babies are born out of sexual intercourse between a male and a female. The jury is still out on the impact of premarital sex but we all agree that sex should only be practiced in the…

Let’s Talk About Masturbation

To masturbate means to stimulate yourself in a sexual way. Masturbation is one of the most forbidden topics ever. In a quest to know why this level of secrecy surrounds masturbation, I asked a few people their thoughts on masturbation and here are their opinions. Jay (F): I feel masturbation is good! It has to…

The Domino Effects of Premarital Pregnancy

Sandra is a smart teenager who aspires to be a lawyer. During the course of her studies, she meets Emeka who dreams of taking over his father’s electronics business in Alaba International Market. They both meet and fall in love, one thing led to another she gets pregnant. This pregnancy has implications and will be…

Indecision Is Worst Than Bad Decisions

#Nugget 4: Someone once said that there are 7 days in a week and ‘someday’ is not one of the them. I remember before I started this blog, I was so indecisive about starting it. Every time someone asked me to start the blog, I always gave one excuse or the other why I should…

Making Genuine Friends Doggystyle

WAYS TO MAKE PEOPLE LIKE YOU #Principle 4: Anytime a friend pays me a visit at home, the first question they ask before even entering the gate is “hope you don’t have a dog?” It seems the innocence and beauty of dogs have been defeated by the way we use them in this part of…

Forgiveness Heals The Forgiver

Forgiving when we have been wronged personally is one of the most difficult things we have to do. But until we forgive we carry that injury with us as if it was happening over and over. We remain the victim of the abuse as long as we continue to give the other person power by…

The 80-20 Rule of Relationships

John is a banker in his late twenties. His meteorological rise to the top of his bank’s management structure has been nothing but phenomenal. He is married to a very pretty fashion designer called Agnes. Agnes is very tall for a lady standing at 6 feet and was a model who came 2nd runner up…

Pastors And Their Sex Lives

Most times you see your pastor on the pulpit, dressed in his three piece suit filled with fresh anointing and grace. As soon as he starts preaching, there is this level of holiness and awe he exudes. He speaks on so many spiritual topics, leads people to Christ and sometimes through him people are healed…

The 12 Qualities of Love

Movies have painted a picture to us of what they think love is but what love is definitely not. We have been deceived to think love is when you see someone and you just can’t control yourself, you feel butterflies in your stomach when you see or hear from that person, you can’t sleep or…

20 Ideas For Valentine’s Day

Valentine’s day has always been described as lover’s day but I’ll rather describe Valentine’s day as a day to show love. Showing love to either your parents, husband/wife, boyfriend/girlfriend, siblings, crush, neighbors, friends, children at an orphanage, beggars and poor people around you. I did my research and I discovered a few ideas to enjoy…